Pennsylvania is one of the few states where a spouse can be forced to delay their
divorce if their husband or wife does not “consent” to the divorce.
With that in mind, it certainly benefits spouses to treat each other with
dignity and respect during the divorce process, otherwise, a mutual consent
divorce can quickly turn into a contested divorce, thereby delaying the
inevitable, even if it’s only to “punish” a misbehaving spouse.
If your spouse has agreed to an uncontested,
no-fault divorce, congratulations! Now that everything is on the right track, let’s
keep it that way. Here is a list of
what not to do during the divorce process. If you’re able to stick to our advice,
you’re setting yourself up for success.
- Like we mentioned above, be “nice” to your spouse, even if
it feels unnatural. You’ll find that if you treat him or her with
respect, the divorce process will be much easier.
- Refrain from airing your dirty laundry to your child’s school teacher,
your co-workers, and your neighbors. It’s better to take the highroad
and keep your personal business private.
- Do not discuss your divorce on social media. It’s counterproductive
and can upset your soon-to-be-ex.
- Do not badmouth your spouse to your children. It only hurts their feelings
and there is no point in harming their relationship with their other parent.
- Do not let anger, bitterness, or jealousy get the best of you. Such emotions
can cause one to act irrationally. Be the bigger person.
- Don’t destroy your spouse’s property, even if he or she cheated
on you. It’s actually a crime to destroy others’ personal property.
- Do not hide assets from your spouse; this can get you into trouble.
- Do not charge up all the credit cards out of anger. This not only hurts
your spouse’s credit, it hurts yours and you can be held liable
for a portion, if not all of the new debt depending on the facts of the case.
In the midst of a divorce, you want to act as mature and responsible as
possible, even if your heart says otherwise. Soon, the divorce will be
over and you’ll be able to rebuild your new life.
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